How do you communicate? Do you prefer using the internet over personal connections? Do you express yourself differently depending on whether you’re connecting on social media or face-to-face? Do you listen (or read) fully present with no judgement? Do you respond after hearing (or reading) a few words, presuming to understand the other’s intentions?
In our technologically connected society, we have become socially disconnected. The Grow Mindfulness website cites Robert Putnam’s 25 years of research which “provided evidence that people are becoming increasingly disconnected from family, social groups, the wider community and neighbours.” The Clinical Director of ReStart, an organization providing support for “internet addiction,” recommends, as often as possible, choosing face-to-face connections over those found through your screen.
Post-lockdown, we quite rightly continue to rely on Facebook and local websites to bring us news about events in our communities, and for sharing stories of mutual enjoyment and concern. But don’t you sometimes find you are on the receiving end of negative comments that are based on judgement and bias rather than compassion and facts? It’s like we’ve forgotten how to talk to each other! Thankfully, due to a plethora of events over the past year we’ve had lots of opportunity to learn how to reengage with our neighbours and friends.
Communication and connection were highlighted at the Halfmoon Bay Community Association’s recent AGM. The first in-person meeting since the lockdown was well-attended. We applauded the HBCA’s outdoor events which brought us together to eat, drink and be merry! We were encouraged to hear their intention to include strengthened communication initiatives in their plans. The board wants the community to know that “as the HBCA bids a grateful farewell to four board members, the last few years have been transformative. Despite strong headwinds, we’ve developed great momentum and are excited to continue to find new ways to serve our community. Our fundraising successes, significant membership growth and strong attendance at this AGM speaks to the important role this organization plays in the community.”
Area B Director Justine Gabias sends this message to residents: “I am filled with gratitude to represent Halfmoon Bay. After 12 months of intense learning, my 2nd year will focus on finding ways to improve connections through 2 initiatives: online office hours where constituents can drop in at their leisure to ask questions, offer feedback or simply catch up on all things SCRD; and, secondly, an overhaul of my website Halfmoonbaynews.ca, where you’ll find more tools, resources, and updates.” I can confirm from personal experience that, not only can we connect with Justine via the internet, but she is always willing to find time for a stroll, a coffee, or a phone chat!
While many of you will read this article online, others will pick up the newspaper – it’s a chance for a walk and perhaps a conversation with a neighbour. As well as seeing us out and about in the community, you can reach us via email: [email protected]; the HBCA at [email protected]; and me at [email protected].
